Getting rid of stuff is equivalent to miscarriage hear me out

Alright, so when we get rid of things, we are not just getting rid of things, but also a dream we had. The intent to do something was established when we bought it. Similarly when one discovers they are expecting a child, these Hope's dreams and intents start to surface and then the unexpected happens the child is deathly sick because of deformity or they are stillborn or miscarried, it's not just a child we never met it's not just a fetus nor is it just tissue as some call it. It had purpose it had a dream it had Hope's and most importantly it had someone who loved it so deeply. So when approaching us with getting rid of our stuff...in all actuality you are asking us to get rid of our dreams.